1楼绮绮燕燕妈
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发表于 2007-4-28 15:59
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大家都把这种现象统称为害羞。 其实有可能是selective mutism (social phobia or speech phobia). a type of anxiety disorder.
这种孩子或大人会害怕在陌生或公共场合正常发挥自己。 这其实大多是遗传的。 在陌生的场合体内会产生一种分泌物导致的。 在自己熟悉的环境下却丝毫没有问题。
我的小孩小时候也有过同类问题， 刚开始上幼儿园2-3个月没说话。 我也查过很多书。
最主要的市和老师沟通。 It would really help if teacher can pay home visits
千万不能逼他说话或参与集体活动。 不要给他更多心理压力。
给他多多一点warm up time. (Sorry my chinese software is not working now..)
Take her to the new environment before to familiarize her first.
Give her more mental preparation of the new activity.
Try to follow subjects of her interest when picking extracurricular activities
Set up playgroup with other kids. First start at yoru home, then move to other kids' home.
You can google on
selective mutisum
Hope this helps a bit. The earlier you start working on this with her, the better..
